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Caring For Mom: A Daughter Gives Back Through Caregiving

Brooke Phillips, CWCMS
Editor | Shield HealthCare
03/10/14  10:23 PM PST

Shield HealthCare “What Makes Caregiving Rewarding?” Story Contest Runner Up Spotlight:

Congratulations to Yahtil W. on her winning caregiving story!


“When my stepfather was diagnosed with terminal cancer, I knew I needed to be with my mother during those last months.  I took time off work and helped her as she attempted to care for the man that she loved as he slowly slid away.  While it was painful to watch, I’m glad that I was there.  That was when I truly became aware that she really could not care for herself, much less another.  My mother suffers from a number of mental and emotional problems.  Her husband’s death exasperated all of them and a short time later she needed to spend some time in the hospital.  I decided then that I would become for her what she had always been to me.

As an Occupational Therapist I had a lot of experience caring for others, from the elderly to small children…but this would be the first time that I was responsible for the care of my own mother.  In many ways, it has been like caring for those other elderly people that I had helped in the past…but in others, it has been like caring for my own child.  Ultimately, that is what makes being a caregiver rewarding for me.

I think one of the fears we have is of disappointing our parents.  If not disappointing them, then at the very least, falling short of showing them how much they have meant to us.  I think many parents believe that their children do not realize how much they sacrificed for their safety, health and happiness.  I also believe that parents are afraid of growing old alone and forgotten in a facility, instead of being surrounded by loved ones at home.

Being my mother’s caregiver gives me a chance to really show her how much her love and care throughout my whole life has meant to me.  She took care of me, sheltered me and fed me.  This is my opportunity to give back to her…not because I’m obligated…but because I love her.”

Click here to read more winning caregiver stories from Shield HealthCare’s 13th Annual “What Makes Caregiving Rewarding?” Story Contest.

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1 Comment

  1. Posted March 15, 2014 at 3:36 am PDT

    What a great share and the fact that caregiving can be such a special thing for both parties is what needs to be recognized. The love is what connects and makes it work. Caregiving is hard. No doubt. Thanks for the share Renee. Too bad I am just reading this.

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